jealousy is not good but positive competion is a very good thing when we want to take others properties holdings or traits in a hidden or illegal way we are jealous but when we try hard to earn things like others we are in competion and this is good in our community few people are really jealous from each other and this jealousy is being brought to the forum of different oganizatons and personal jealousy is being converted into group jealouses, problem is this when we are jealous we are infact very angry and want to kill other person and when we can not do this we become like pressure cooker and due to pressure of our anger we don't know what to do and how to behave so some time we just starting abusing other solution is very simple but very hard to apply always try to conttrol your jealousy and produce force for good competion. I suggest this for every person and every Association
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Jelousy is a fear that you are not as good as others or an envy of what they have. People, who are always jelous of everyone else, are afraid their need will not be met.
Jelousy has been the cause of marriage break- ups, destroyed friendships and strained relationships among siblings. The greater the perceived threat, the greater the jelousy becomes. Being jelous of your neighbour can lead you deep in debt as you try to keep up appearances and have the same or better things than your neighbour does. Severe jelousy has even led to crimes such as theft, arson and murder.
Many times people who are jelous are very insecure. They always think that they have to measure up to the imagined standards of others.
The best treatment for jelousy is to have good relationships. Trust is an essential element for a good relationship and with jelousy there is very little trust. Building trust takes a lot of time and effort, especially with someone who is habitually jelous of everyone.
However, it is not always a bad thing. Being jelous of someone can spur you into action whether it is to study harder in school or to get a better job. In this way being jelous can be good, although it is usually perceived as being a bad quality.
Thanks for your good information may i know what we mean by good relationship whether it is between jealous person and other? thanks
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