what we expect from others is not important what other expect from us is always more important and we should care about this some people intially behave good and expect so much form others and when other can not come to their expectations they become reactionary and change their behaviour. This is a problem with so many people that's why a great poet of Urdu language (Faraaz} says " you are thinking every shak hand doing person is your friend no Fraaz you are wrong they are not your friends they are showing good mannars from out side and from inside they are your enemis" we should not change our behaviour so rapidly and we should be consistant in dealings with others this is early message Holly Prophet delivered. Medical point of veiw this is a Psychological diseases some people adopt a very hypcratic and multi layer attitude towords their friends and they don't tell their expectaions to their friends finally when friends deviate from their set design and frame of action they became furious Aristole say they become furious lke rabid dog. But what happs in the process of their Psychological problems and behavious disturbance they lost good friend, good raputaion.............continued
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Then these person just avoid their interanl pintches make excuses for their misbaves and justified their attitude but we never are the best judge of our deeds its the society who gives its neutral verdict about us. Behaviour inconsistancy is a very serious broblem in Muslim society in overseas becaz in Islam we have to control our habits and style of life but western world is not helping us to do so, so we become shaky some time we believe and do one thing and other time some other and in the process lose our consistancy of behavior. Fifty percent of migratee Muslim I have met were suffering from same disease. With Shaky behaviour we are never be 1 good friend 2 Husband 3 empylee 4 boss 5 owner 6 good and true Muslim Our inconsitant attitude take us to a position where we have to some time back out from our words and some time have to lie, so this is a big Psychological problem with so many people and unfortunitely we have some people of this catogary in PANZ and also cultural accociation that's why we are unable to unite becaz consistancy of words attitude promises and agreements is essential for unity in the community.
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what we expect from others is not important what other expect from us is always more important and we should care about this some people intially behave good and expect so much form others and when other can not come to their expectations they become reactionary and change their behaviour. This is a problem with so many people that's why a great poet of Urdu language (Faraaz} says " you are thinking every shak hand doing person is your friend no Fraaz you are wrong they are not your friends they are showing good mannars from out side and from inside they are your enemis" we should not change our behaviour so rapidly and we should be consistant in dealings with others this is early message Holly Prophet delivered. Medical point of veiw this is a Psychological diseases some people adopt a very hypcratic and multi layer attitude towords their friends and they don't tell their expectaions to their friends finally when friends deviate from their set design and frame of action they became furious Aristole say they become furious lke rabid dog. But what happs in the process of their Psychological problems and behavious disturbance they lost good friend, good raputaion.............continued
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